are you controlling your dance?
That’s an exciting thought.
Let’s look a little closer at what’s waiting for you to change
Our world today is based on corruption, money, and power
So, what does all this look like in your world?
- most popular,
- best looking,
- most money,
- bully
- Bully others
- Control other people
- Make fun of those who don’t measure up in their eyes
- Use money to get what they want from people
There are aspects of these traits in all of us
Yes – we all hold some aspect of these traits
Your job is to
look inside yourself to find any shred of this in you
And then systematically work to let it go
As you let it go in yourself, it will begin to disappear in your life
It’s almost magical how this happens
Yes, you heard me correctly
As you let it go in yourself, it will begin to disappear in your life
There’s a tool you need to find and figure out how to work with
If you’re going to change yourself and your world
But, if you change the way you dance ( as in make a change in yourself)
Your partner has to do one of two things
Change the way they're dancing (make a change in themselves)
OR
Step off the dance floor
You can’t change the dance(or your situation) any other way
Not by yelling at your partner to dance differently
Not by feeling sorry for yourself because you don’t like the way the dance is
Not by complaining to your friends about it
Not by locking yourself in your room on a hunger strike
As long as you’re dancing the same way, and your partner is dancing the same way
Nothing will change
So, what do you do?
You look deep inside yourself and figure out what negative traits you hold inside you that is creating this dance you don’t like
You look to see if there are any beliefs or assumptions that are making you think and feel a certain way – that is then making you act a certain way
If you can change the way you think, feel, and act
Your dance or situation has to change.
It takes a while, so you have to stay consistent in what you think, feel, and do
That’s how you change a situation in your life
And that’s how you begin to change your life
When you’ve mastered that, you can take the same system to change
Your friendships
Your family
Your school
And our world that so needs your help!